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Bouncing back: The power of resilience in pickleball

Payton Bond
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Feb 17 2026

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Instruction

Have you ever felt like a single mistake completely threw you off your game? Maybe you missed an easy shot, and instead of letting it go, you let it snowball — grumbling to yourself, tensing up and making more errors.

Or perhaps your partner made a few bad plays, and suddenly frustration takes over. Before you know it, you're playing distracted, out of sync, and struggling to get back in the zone.

This is where resilience makes all the difference.

What does resilience look like in pickleball?

In pickleball, resilience is a player’s ability to recover quickly after losing a point, making a mistake, or struggling with a dip in performance. It’s about staying mentally tough, maintaining focus, and pushing through the challenges that will inevitably arise in a match.

Why does this matter?

Imagine you’re trailing by a few points. A player lacking resilience might panic, get frustrated, or start playing recklessly. A resilient player, on the other hand, sees this as a chance to regroup, adjust their strategy and fight their way back into the game. Instead of letting frustration take over, they stay composed, analyze what’s happening and make smart adjustments.

Resilient players also manage momentum well. When their opponent starts gaining the upper hand, they don’t just hope things turn around. They recognize the shift and actively make changes, whether that’s executing a specific strategy or focusing on shot placement.

Mistakes are inevitable in any game, but resilient players don’t let unforced errors define them. Whether it’s a footwork mistake, a misjudged ball, or a poor shot selection, they process it quickly, learn from it and move on.

A losing streak can be especially frustrating, but resilient players don’t let it shake their confidence. Instead, they see every match as a fresh start, reflect on what went wrong, identify areas for improvement and come back with a clear game plan.

They are also adaptive. If an opponent starts exploiting a weakness, they adjust their approach, whether that means changing shot selection, altering court positioning, or shifting their mindset to stay one step ahead.

Resilience test

Do you give up when you’re down by many points in a game, or do you keep fighting? I see players stop playing with focus and literally throw in the towel when they’re losing by a lot.

One of the best feelings I’ve had playing pickleball is coming back from a big deficit — think 8-1 or a game that seemed out of reach. Coming back in these situations is a sign of resilience and mental toughness.

If you tend to check out when the score isn’t in your favor, challenge yourself to fight until the very last point.

Staying focused under pressure

When the pressure is on — like at game point — resilient players don’t let distractions take over. They tune out negative thoughts, ignore the scoreboard and focus entirely on their next shot. This ability to stay composed under pressure is what often separates good players from great ones.

Final thoughts

Building resilience in pickleball doesn’t happen overnight, but it develops through experience and mindset. It’s about learning to replace negative self-talk with productive adjustments and recognizing that while you can’t control every point, you can control how you respond.

The best players aren’t the ones who never make mistakes, but the ones who recover from them the fastest.

So, the next time you find yourself in a tough match, ask yourself: Are you letting frustration control your game, or are you using resilience to turn things around?

Payton Bond is a pickleball enthusiast and author who focuses on strategy and helping players better understand the game. This article is adapted from his book, Pickleball Strategy – A Guide to 3.5 and Beyond, available on Amazon.

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